Photo of The D. A. Parmelee House 
(from the National Register of Historical Places--
Dwight's house is still standing (1328 West River Rd. Valley City, 
Ohio)
"Aasahel Sanford Parmelee did indeed go from Cazenovia, NY to Medina county, Ohio, in 1834 where he built a saw and grist mill. he can be found there in the 1850, 70 and 80 censuses. and he was also the postmaster of Liverpool (now Valley City).
I have Fanny's last name as Bates. {whereas the Pioneering Women site says "Fanny Fields" from Eaton Ohio --there is an Eaton just NW of Valley City} Her father Solomon originally from Sayville, Ashtabula Co., buried in Bates Cemetery there w. wife & dau, both named Susan.
William Hemmingway Parmelee and Edmund Parmelee were A.S.'s younger brothers, who also moved to Medina county. Edmund later moved to Lansing, Mich. {So did James S (Susan's brother in ____}
Sanford D is a very, very distant relative. he's from Joshua's branch of the family while the rest of these parmelee's are descended from Joel. Sanford D.'s father was Herman Milford Parmelee. [I found Sanford D via google & in census-Russel NY, a sargent, killed Civil War in VA- see the Edwards, NY Histiory & Genealogy Center, online]
As you move back up the line, Charles Parmelee was a private in the Revolutionary War -- you can find out more about his served on my revolutionary war page.
And Deacon Joel's tombstone, the oldest in the family that survives, can be found on the website too. deacon joel's tombstone
I've sent along a family group sheet and the line on back to the early parmelees. hope this is of some help to you."
Jim Walters,                                                 
Date: Wed, 27 Apr 2005 19:41:23 EDT      JimWal54@aol.com   
  
1 > Asahel Sanford PARMELEE-512 (29 Aug 1808-28 Nov 1882)
Generation 2-------------------Parents of Asahel Sanford PARMELEE
2 > Asahel PARMELEE-498 (3 Aug 1781-7 May 1840)
3   Betsey ANGIER-504 (23 Jun 1778-3 Jun 1863)
Generation 3-------------------Grand Parents of Asahel Sanford PARMELEE
4 > Charles PARMELEE Private-67 (17 Sep 1753-9 Dec 1838)
5   Mary TYLER-224 (30 Apr 1757-7 Apr 1829)
Generation 4-------------------Great Grand Parents of Asahel Sanford PARMELEE
 8 > Hezekiah PARMELEE-38 (10 Jan 1710/1711-29 Jan 1796)
 9   Mehitabel HALL-50 (25 Apr 1716-14 Feb 1755)
Generation 5-------------------2nd Great Grand Parents of Asahel Sanford PARMELEE
16 > Joel PARMELEE Deacon/Lt-19 (1679/1680-20 Jul 1748)
17   Abigail ANDREWS-36 (-)
Generation 6-------------------3rd Great Grand Parents of Asahel Sanford PARMELEE
32 > John PARMELEE-3 (6 Sep 1612-31 Jan 1687/1688)
33   Hannah PLAINE-10 (-8 Jan 1687/1688)
Generation 7-------------------4th Great Grand Parents of Asahel Sanford PARMELEE
 64 > John PARMELEE-1 (27 Sep 1584-8 Nov 1659)
 65   Anne HOWELL-896 (-)
Generation 8-------------------5th Great Grand Parents of Asahel Sanford PARMELEE
128   John PARMELEE-892 (Bef 1554-1 May 1583)
129   Alice RUSSELL-893 (Bef 1554-)
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  >  means parents are in next generation
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E:\DATA\PARMELEE\10-JOEL                       Family Group Record - 207
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HUSBAND     Asahel PARMELEE (498)
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Born:  3 Aug 1781             Place: West Stockbridge,Berkshire,Mass
Chr.:                         Place: 
Died:  7 May 1840             Place: Cazenovia,Madison,N.Y
Bur.:  South Cemetery         Place: Cazenovia NY
Mar.:  5 Sep 1805             Place: Cazenovia,Madison,N.Y
Father: Charles PARMELEE Private-67/m41                 Mother: Mary TYLER-224
Other wives:    
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WIFE        Betsey ANGIER (504)
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Born: 23 Jun 1778             Place: N.Y
Chr.:                         Place: 
Died:  3 Jun 1863             Place: Carlos,Oswego,N.Y
Bur.: South Cemetery          Place: Cazenovia  (www.rootsweb.com/~nyccazen)
Father:                                                Mother: 
Other husbands: 
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SEX   Children  (in order of birth) (Marr:*  means multiple marriages)
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  1   Name: Mary PARMELEE-511                        Spouse: Russell HALL-518/214
      Born:  7 Oct 1806       Place: Cazenovia,Madison,N.Y                        
      Died: 24 Feb 1879       Place: Fulton,Oswego,N.Y                            
  F   Bur.:                   Place:                                              
      Mar.: 20 Sep 1838       Place:                                             
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  2   Name: Asahel Sanford PARMELEE-512          Spouse: Clarinda WILMOT-519/215 (1st wife, 2 children)
      Born: 29 Aug 1808       Place: Cazenovia,Madison,N.Y       Fanny W. BATES-520/216 (2nd wife 5 children)
      Died: 28 Nov 1882       Place: Valley City,Medina,Ohio                      
  M   Bur.: {Myrtle Hill Cem} Place: Valley City (cemetery on Mrtle Hill Rd.} 
      (cem is SE from Hardscrabble, or NE from Center Rd, cross Wilmot/Hartneck Rds}
      {Delos, A. S. Fanny, Clarinda; also Hattie (d at 13 mo.) & George (7 yrs 8 mo.)}                                              
      Mar.:* 4 Jul 1840       Place: Valley City,Medina,Ohio                      
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  3   Name: William Hemingway PARMELEE-513             Spouse: Mary REYNOLDS-521/217
      Born:  8 Dec 1810       Place: Cazenovia,Madison,N.Y                        
      Died: 16 Nov 1845       Place: Valley City,Medina,Ohio                      
  M   Bur.:                   Place:                                              
      Mar.: 16 Jan 1839       Place: Valley City,Medina,Ohio                      
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  4   Name: Edmund PARMELEE-514                       Spouse: Camilla Stewart REYNOLDS-522/218
      Born: 23 Oct 1812       Place: Cazenovia,Madison,N.Y                        
      Died: 23 Apr 1888       Place: Lansing,Ingham,Mich                          
  M   Bur.:                   Place:                                              
      Mar.: 16 Oct 1834       Place:                                          
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  5   Name: Elizabeth Olive PARMELEE-515               Spouse: Horace TENNEY-523/219
      Born: 20 Apr 1817       Place: Cazenovia,Madison,N.Y                        
      Died: 14 Jan 1876       Place: Baldwinsville,Onondaga,N.Y                   
  F   Bur.:                   Place:                                              
      Mar.:  5 Sep 1843       Place: Plainfield,,N.Y                              
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  6   Name: James Angier PARMELEE-516                  Spouse: Sarah M DEXTER-524/220
      Born: 21 Mar 1819       Place: Cazenovia,Madison,N.Y                        
      Died: 15 Nov 1854       Place: Peterboro,Madison,N.Y                        
  M   Bur.:                   Place:                                              
      Mar.: 13 Oct 1842       Place:                                              
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  7   Name: Charles B PARMELEE-517                     Spouse: Hannah Nekayah RICHARDSON-525/221
      Born: 10 Feb 1823       Place: Cazenovia,Madison,N.Y                        
      Died: 29 Mar 1888       Place: Colosse (Mexico),Oswego,N.Y                  
  M   Bur.:                   Place: Mexico,Oswego,N.Y                         
      Mar.: 14 Apr 1847       Place: Colosse (Mexico),Oswego,N.Y               
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from Laverne Tolsma (Mrs. Melvin) Valley City Historical Society  
7060 Center Rd  Valley City, OH  (330) 483-3994  
Myrtle Hill Cemetery, Valley City
Delos A. Parmelee  "son of A S & G"  d 1879 age 38 
A. S. Parmelee d 1882 at age 74  {~1808 -  1882}
Fanny  W.  Parmelee  d  age 79    {~1815 - ~1894}
Hattie Parmelee  d at 13 mo. 
George Parmelee  7 yrs 8 mo.
Clarinda  d at age 25  apparently buried in separate section  {Clarinda Wilmot}
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Approx. Birthdate of A. S. Parmelee's children:
Asa Delos___1841  by Clarinda 
Charles E.___1843  by Clarinda 
Susan   C___1846  by Fanny 1846 in 1860 censu
William E___1848  by Fanny 1849 
James   S___1850  by Fanny 1851
Dwight A___1852  by Fanny  1853
Ada _______1857  by Fanny  1855
Assuming Fanny b 1815, she'd be ~42 when Ada was born
?Hattie d 13 mo.
?George d 7 yrs 8 mo.
Possibly the 1840  census tallies by age group might help. Hattie & George do not  
show in 1850, 1870  or 1880 census. One or both, I suppose, could be a non-surviving  
twin(?)  or  less likely  maybe, a near relative
1860 Census
PAUMAN	A S	51	M	W	NY	OH	MEDINA	LIVERPOOL TWP	1860  {Parmelee misspelled
A S  57 farmer? Fanny  44 __Asal 18  mill hand  Charles 16 mill hand Susan 14 __ 
Wm 11 ___ James 9 __Dwight 7 __Adelaide 5__ all but youngest checked off as
attended school in past year.
also in household 3 unrelated: 2 men (George_ 25 & ?Wilson 19) mill hands, 1 female 
(L__ F__) 19 domestic  A S worth  $4500  $7999
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NOTE: North Eaton is NW of Valley City - is this where 
Fanny W Bates grew up or moved to later. Why does the Pioneer 
Women document say she was Fanny Fields???
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Nellie E. (Mrs. Charles E. Parmelee) ; enr. '62-'65 prep.
http://www.archive.org/stream/generalcatalogue00oberrich/generalcatalogue00oberrich_djvu.txt
Charles Ebenezer Parmelee and Ellen Eliz (or Nellie) Adams, in 1868
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A S Parmelee
Birth:	unknown Death:	Nov. 29, 1882
Inscription: 74y 3m
Burial: Myrtle Hill Cemetery Valley City Medina County Ohio, USA
Created by: Gravehunter Record added: Nov 22, 2010 
Find A Grave Memorial# 62031091 Cemetery Photo Added by: Edward Relitz