Argument #1- Parents are setting their
children up for dangerous problems in the future.
"Barclayshas projected that a
full two-thirds of identity fraud in the year 2030 will be from
scraping information of minors from social media sights, provided
by oversharing parents." (Fernandez, 2019)
Children whose parents post about them on soical media are
more likely to experience identity fraud. This is solely because
of their parents, and not themselves. Parents are supposed to
protect their kids, not hurt them.
". . . you could post a completely
innocuous video of your daughter doing cartwheels and a pedophile
could comment with a time code of a particular split-second view
as a signal to his fellows." (Kamenetz, 2019)
This is a parents' worst nightmare. Parents are providing
strangers the information to harm their children.
Argument #2- Sensitive
information about children is shared.
" Imagine a child who has behavior problems, learning disabilities
or chronic illness. Mom or Dad understandably want to discuss
these struggles and reach out for support. But those posts live on
the internet, with potential to be discovered by college
admissions officers and future employers, friends and romantic
prospects. A child's life story is written for him before he has a
chance to tell it himself. " (Kamenetz, 2019)
Things like mental health and illnesses are extrememly
vulnerable things to experience, and should only be shared with
friends and family. Others who see this may jufge and will never
know the true story of a person. Children deserve a clean slate.
"You'd tell your teenager to use social
media to create a positive portrayal of herself so future
employers will be impressed by her savvy dissection of current
events rather than how many tequila shots she had at Tommy's
#houseparty last weekend. You should think about telling yourself
to post only a tasteful update about your 10year-old's success at
baseball rather than the fight he got into with his younger sister
after the game ended." (Plunkett, 2019)
Sensitive informations is can also be embarassing information.
Children should be allowed to grow and evolve. Therefore, when
they grow up, they may be embarassed or regret things they did
as young children.
Fernandez, E. (2019, July 8). What we post on social
media may harm our
children’s development. Forbes.
Kamenetz, A. (2019, Jun 06). The problem with
'sharenting': [op-ed]. New
York Times
Plunkett, L. A. (2019, Sep 15). Are you sure you
want to post that about
your kid on facebook?: Why oversharing about children
today could end up
hurting them for years to come. Boston Globe